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March, 2008

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Lots of hits

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Someone must be bored out of their mind to be coming to my site and reading every single blog I’ve written. I’m not sure if anyone has the time to go through every single one but apparently someone has taken the time through some of my blogs.

From what I can tell, since 4:30pm, someone from Spain, or so I assume, has been accessing my blog. According to the logs, they’ve been hitting every blog post I’ve written. They’ve worked their way from the main page to the photo blog section and ending at my blog.

At first, I thought that someone actually took the time to reason every single post but from as I can tell from the time stamp, there’s no way they can read each post in less than three seconds. I don’t think even the fastest reader in the world can read that fast. It takes at least a second to scroll down the page and then another second to click on the link going to the next page so that leaves one second to read everything. If this person can read everything in about a second, I’d like to know how.

After seeing all that activity, I had a suspicion that someone might be trying to take down my site. They’ve viewing one page every 2-3 seconds which means that they’ll be viewing about 20-30 pages a minutes. They were on my site for a at least 34 minutes before I blocked them so they managed to view about 680 – 1020 posts. There are 578 posts in my blog and 258 posts in my photo blog which brings the total to 836 posts. I managed to stop them at 541 posts.

I don’t know what would have happened if I let them continue viewing all those posts. I am limited on the amount of bandwidth that I’m allowed every month. The images in the photo blog are about 250kb each so they managed to get at least 64mb of bandwidth. If this permission meant harm to my site, I’d have to take precaution and blog them temporarily.

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Outsourcing

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I don’t understand why so many companies are outsourcing work to other countries just to save a few dollars. The people who handle our calls are not all competent enough to assistant us. They take too long to answer on simple questions. And the procedures that they have in place are somewhat redundant.

I received an invoice for $146.37 for a couple of month of internet service. Upon further inspection of the bill, I noticed that they were charging me for this month and next month. That seemed a little strange because I’ve already paid for this month. Right at the beginning of the invoice it says that I’ve already paid and they’ve received it. I should be paid up until March 22, 2008 but apparently they threw in another charge.

I don’t know what it is but with phone companies, they like to charge you for this month and the next month even though you haven’t done anything for next month. It’s like they know how much you’ll be using the internet next month before you even used it. I don’t think that it’s fair but that’s how they run their business so we can’t do anything to change that.

Normally I wouldn’t make a big deal out of an invoice but for this one, I have to say something. I’m only taking notice with this one because my coworker was speaking with Bell and they messed up his invoice as well. He was on the phone with someone for a good hour before hanging up and even then the issue wasn’t resolved.

I had to contact Bell a couple of months ago because they messed up on my bill. I was charged $130 for canceling my service prematurely. I wasn’t aware that I was on a contract so they resolved it in a timely manner and cleared the $100 early termination fee which left me with a bill of sixteen dollars and change. Those sixteen dollars shouldn’t be there in the first place but I don’t have time to dispute those charges.

It seems like Bell likes to send me invoices on a Friday so by the time I get the invoice, their offices are closed and I’d have to resort to chatting with someone on the internet who’s probably in India somewhere. Those guys can’t resolve everything so I’d have to wait until Monday to speak with someone in Canada.

Today, I had to speak with three different “agent” over online chat. And the chat was a cheap version of the AJAX shout box that I have. Before the chat starts, they tell me “In case we get disconnected, which rarely ever happens, is there a number that we can contact you at?” I give them my phone number but they never called me when I got disconnected. I was disconnected twice and both times I did not get a call back. And every time I initiate a chat, that’s the same thing they tell me. Sadly enough, I find it hard to believe that disconnection “rarely ever happens.” When I initiate the chat a third time, I didn’t bother giving them my information. Why bother since they’re not even going to call me.

All I wanted to know was why and how my service plan changed, why I was on a two year contract and why I was being charged so much. But every time I posed that question, they couldn’t provide and answer a requested that I send an email to assistance@sympatico.ca. Obviously, these guys aren’t able to help me as much as I thought.

From what they’ve told me, my account was accessed and changed on February 3, 2008 which was the time when I was in Hong Kong. The service was change from a regular DSL to a DSL Performance service which is about fifty dollars a month. When the service was upgrade, the modem was upgraded as well so an additional charge of fifty five dollars was applied for the upgrade and shipping of the month.

The only time that my account could have been changed was when my dad called in for Tech Support because the internet was down. The tech guy could have helped him with his connection problem but I don’t think he would have changed my account. I don’t think anyone has access to my account other than myself and I did not add an authorized user who can speak on my behalf.

I know that my dad’s name shows up on the phone bill but the internet bill is under my name. Even if he is the person who’s the number is registered to, the invoice is under my name so he shouldn’t have access to it unless I say so.

The person that I spoke with online didn’t have a clue as to why the changes were made to the account. From what he could tell, I was the one that upgraded the service. Any questions that I asked that he couldn’t answer, he would suggest that I send an email. I don’t want to send an email to someone when I’m already speaking with someone. I’m sure that the answers are available right in front of him if he looked hard enough. Every call gets recorded in some way so I’m sure that the previous person logged the important information.

Now, I have to wait until Monday to call and get in touch with someone in Canada to get this straightened out. I don’t want to be paying more than $50 a month for a performance internet service when a $30 package will be sufficient. I have a feeling that they will charge me for terminating the contact but it wasn’t me who agreed to the contract in the first place.

I think that these big companies should stop outsourcing their customer service to third world just so they can save a few dollars here and there. There are perfectly good people in Canada who are willing to do the same work. I know that they want to make profit and everything but outsourcing is causing a lot more problems than it’s fixing. I’m getting to the point where I’m going to cancel my service because the customer service sucks. Why should I support a company that doesn’t care about my needs?

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Move bitch, get out the way

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Sometimes it’s alright to stop and yield others but other times they can just forget about it. I’m sure that there are benefits in giving others the right of way but that’s not always true. There are cases where it might hurt you more than the other person.

Drivers are crazy people who are in a rush to go everywhere. It doesn’t matter if they’re driving across the street to a Tim Horton’s or whether they’re driving an hour away to the next city. Where ever they go, they’re in a rush to get there as soon as possible.

But it’s not just the speedy drivers who are crazy. The slow drivers are just as crazy because they make the speedy drivers crazier than they already are. Slow drivers do things very slow in a fast paced environment. Take your sweet time merging onto the highway can get you into an accident.

When you’re driving and going places, you don’t want things in your way. In Canada, people like to idle and get in other people’s way. They don’t want things to be done on a timely manner. They want things done but they take their time in doing so but you can’t carry on until they get out of your way.

Taxi drivers do it all the time. They’ll purposely stop in the middle of the street to let their passengers get out of the vehicle. Sometimes I don’t mind it because it happens very quickly but other times they take their time. One time I had to wait because the taxi driver didn’t want to pull into the driver way to let out the customer. So I had to wait until they unloaded all of their groceries.

Taxi drivers are always in a rush to go somewhere so to save time they leave the car running. They can’t afford to shut off the engine for a few minutes. Other times, a taxi will hold up traffic because the passenger wants out right there and then. With only one lane, the taxi is holding up a whole bunch of cars to let the passenger out. It only takes a few seconds to pull to the side or maybe around the corner. I think that an obstruction of traffic is a federal offense punishable by fines.

Tax drivers aren’t the only one that holds up traffic by not pulling over. Every vehicle that carries a passenger is a potential threat. This morning, I drove by a car that appeared to be waiting for a passenger to get out. The door was wide open and I saw a leg stick out. I didn’t have much room to drive pass them so I slowed down almost to a stop. I stopped for a few seconds but the passenger didn’t budge. Their door remained opened and nobody was going anywhere.

I assumed that the driver would be kind enough to inch over to the right to let me pass but he didn’t move. I had to drive over the side walk to get pass them. I don’t know what happened to common courtesy anymore but no one wants to give the right of way. I think that’s one of the main reasons why they made it a law to yield to buses.

For buses, it’s hard for them to switch lanes when nobody will let them in. When you don’t yield to buses, you’re not holding up one person, you’re holding up everyone on that bus. All it takes is for one person to slow down to let the bus go and everyone will be happy.

But sometimes, it’s not good to slow down. When I have to turn onto a busy street, I usually always have to wait for that one car that’s moving really slowly. And for someone reason, they’re always driving onto the lane that I have to turn into. They drive so slow that the traffic behind them catches up to them which in turns means that I can’t turn. If they drove a bit faster, I would have been able to turn before the rest of the traffic catches up but that rarely happens. And it’s the same case when I try to cross the street. I can’t cross because this one car is moving to slow and by the time it passes, the traffic behind it are already speeding down the street.

I honestly don’t know how some of these drivers get their drivers license. Who in their right mind would pass them during their exam? If the speed limit is 50km/h, you should be driving roughly at that speed and not 10km/h slower. There are simple, straight forward rules to obey when you’re on the rule but if you don’t know them, you shouldn’t be driving in the first place.

Taxes

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Like most people, I like to buy things, whether I need it or not, I buy it. I try to save money but it’s hard to save something that’s meant to be spent. Sometimes I buy the small things and without noticing it, all of those small things add up. And the thing that helps raise the price is taxes.

I don’t understand why the stores don’t post the prices of items after the taxes have been applied. Every time I go shopping, I try to work out the price of an item after tax. I know that the tax is applied at the cash register but it would be nice if they had the final price displayed. Showing the price before the tax is applied is probably a good way to fool the consumer into thinking that the product is inexpensive but wouldn’t it be more practical if they showed us how much it would cost after tax?

When I was in Hong Kong, the price that was shown is the price that you would pay. I was able to add up the cost of all the items that I bought and I knew if I had enough money. Once I knew what the final price was going to be, I’d make a decision on whether or not the product was worth it. But around here, if something is ten dollars, it doesn’t mean that it’s ten dollars. After applying the GST and PST, the final price is a dollars thirty more. Adding numbers is fairly easy but when you have to add and then multiply, it gets a little tricky. Unless you’re a math wizard, you’ll need a piece of paper to work on those larger numbers.

This year, taxes dropped two percent. There’s nothing wrong if you over calculate something. That just means that you’ll have some buffer room. But I didn’t follow exactly when the taxes were dropped so I kept calculating things at fourteen percent. In the end, it just means more change in my pocket. I think my coat pocket is starting to rip from the weight of the coins.

I think retail stores should save us the trouble and do the calculating for us. If something is ten dollars, I’m expecting to spend ten dollars when I get to the cash register. I don’t want to have to break a twenty and end up carrying change around.

No more favours

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I don’t like it when people call me just to ask for favours. I don’t mind doing favours for them but it wouldn’t be a bad idea if they called me to chat about things once in a while before asking me for the favour. I don’t appreciate it when people call me out of the blue and ask for a favour.

It’s hard to say no to family members but in certain cases, you have to know where to draw the line. When it comes to my parents, I can’t help it but to say yes to them but to other family members, I don’t have much of a choice. If it helps them out in anyway then I can think about it but sometimes you have to use your own judgment.

For a while now, my aunt has been calling me and asking me for money. The first time she called she told me that she needed money to pay for the car. I found out later that she got a new car and they have to make car payments. First of all, I don’t understand why they bother buying a car when they can’t even afford the monthly payments on it.

She said that she would pay me back at the end of the month so I agreed and took out some money. I was a bit hesitant at first because I didn’t have much money in my bank account to start off wit and she was asking for a thousand dollars at first. I thought that was way too much so I told her that I didn’t have that much money. All I could give her was five hundred because that’s the maximum that the bank will allow me to withdraw at one time. I told her that I also had rent to pay for but that didn’t seem to deter her. It pissed me off when she suggested that I lend her the money first before paying my rent. After she made that selfish comment I didn’t want to give her anything.

When I went to her house to give her the money she wasn’t home. I thought that she was at work so I sat down a waited for a bit. My grandma was home so I chatted with her for a bit and she told me that my aunt was at the casino. Once I heard that, I didn’t want to wait around any longer. I had a feeling that she wasn’t using my money to pay for the rent but my grandma and my cousins were living under the same room and I didn’t want to risk them getting kicked out. I doubt that they’d be evicted for missing one month’s rent but just to be on the safe said I tried to help. But in the end, she didn’t even need the money so I withdrew it for nothing.

The next time she called, I told her that I had no money. I had just gotten my bi-weekly pay and I need that for rent so there was no way I was going to lend her the money. This time, when she called, she didn’t even bother to ask how I was or anything. She didn’t even bother to make small talk. She cut right to the chase and asked me for money.

She first asked me for seven hundred dollars so I told her that I don’t have seven hundred dollars. Then she lowered the request and asked for four hundred dollars. Again, I told her that I didn’t have that either. And finally, she asked for two hundred dollars and that she’ll paid me at the end of the month. I told her that I had to pay for the rent and all I had left was fifty bucks. She said “Okay” and hung up the phone.

At that point, I became furious. The purpose of the call was to get money and since I didn’t have any she didn’t want anything to do with me. How rude is that? I’ve always been a good nephew and I’ve helped her out when I could but this was the last straw. I have my own money problems to worry about and I don’t want to involve myself with her financial dilemmas.

I shouldn’t be complaining about this stuff since I’m the one that’s getting myself in these sorts of positions. I can’t seem to say no when people ask me for help. A lot of people come to me for financial assistance but I’m not really the person to go coming to when they’re in need of money. I’m still trying to get my financial issues in order. I can’t be helping other people when I can’t even help myself.

Coming and going

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When you work in a large company like I do, you don’t have time to meet everyone who works there. I work in such a large company that people come and go without me knowing. Since I’m in the I.T. Department I should have somewhat of an idea when people are hired and when they leave.

I work for a company that employs about six hundred people in the Hamilton site. It’s an international company so their global number of employees ranges in the thousands. A couple of weeks ago, they had to close down a site in Germany because that sector wasn’t doing too well. The company tried to reduce the number people it laid off by transferring some of them to another site but unfortunately they can’t accommodate for everyone. But even for a site that’s all the way in Germany, I was able to hear about it. People left my site and I don’t find out until a couple of weeks later.

When there are new employees, I have to prepare their workstation for them so they can do their jobs. And when people leave, I have to pick up their computer and put it back in stock. What’s nice about it is that you get to meet new people all the time and when there’s a problem with their computer, I’m the first person they go to. I usually suggest that they contact the helpdesk because that’s what procedure dictates they do but unfortunately, they don’t have the patients to be placed on hold.

Recently, one of the employees from the Quality Control Department left the computer. I’m not sure exactly why he left but he’s been gone since the end of February so I’m assuming that his contract was over or something. I did not find that out until yesterday when I asked about him. I wouldn’t have known about it but a new employee started yesterday and was sitting at his desk. At first I assumed that he was assigned to field duties but then a coworker told me that he was no longer with the company.

He has been gone for three weeks and this is the first that I’ve heard of it. I wasn’t that close with him but the fact of the matter is that he’s gone and it took three weeks for me to find out. He wasn’t one of those employees that go around the plant a lot so I doubt that many people knows that he’s left. But it’s a little scarier to know how easily someone can be forgotten. Within a couple of weeks, people probably won’t even remember his name.

I used to think that once you create some sort of bond between someone, they won’t forget who you are but I’m starting to think that the bond isn’t as strong as I thought. There are people who I talk to a lot and chances are that they’ll forget me within a matter of weeks.

When I used to work at the library as a security guard, I would do my patrols and talk to fellow coworkers and it felt like I gotten to know them pretty well. But the thing was they only knew me as a security guard and nothing else. When I’m in my civilian attire, they would walk right pass me. It’s a strange feeling knowing that there are people you know who don’t acknowledge you when you cross paths.

Since I haven’t been working at the library for that long, it’s even harder for people to recognize me. There are the few who still remembers me even though I hardly talk to them. There’s one employee who still remembers me but only because she has seen me out of uniform a few times at the harbour front. But when I see each other, we just say “hi” and continue on our way.

A workplace is a workplace and some people could care less about anyone else. Some people go to work just to work. They keep to themselves all day long and communicate with no one. I don’t know how people can do that. I’m the type of person who likes to go around and talk to people at work even if it means a quick hello.

There are a few people who I might have forgotten over the years but I recognize them if I was to see them. If I’ve forgotten them completely, there’s a chance that they didn’t do anything the least bit significant for me to remember them. To the people at the library, they’ll probably remember me as that Asian guy that walks around.

Hong Kong: Day 2, Part 3

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My solo journey in Hong Kong eventually leads me to Lai Chi Kok Park. I don’t know how I managed to find this park. I think I got off the subway at the wrong stop and found myself in another district. As I was changing stations, I saw the park outside so I wandered around for a bit to take some pictures. I was in no hurry to go anywhere since the subway train comes and goes every few minutes.

The thing that caught my attention as I was switching station was the monument at the entrance of the park. Well, from where I was standing, it appeared to be the entrance but it was just something in the middle of the park. The monument was surrounded by colour flower. If those flowers weren’t there I probably would have missed this park completely.

Lai Chi Kok Park entrance

I walked around for a bit, taking pictures of things that I haven’t seen before. Well, since I was in a country that I’ve never been before I wanted to capture everything no matter how insignificant it was.

Blossom

There were a few monuments in the park and some had an inscription on it. Since Hong Kong used to be a British colony, the inscriptions were in English as well. If you can’t read it, this one says, “The Lai Chi Kok Park opened by Dr. Philip Kwok Chi-Kuen, JP Urban Counselor on 13th, January 1990.” It’s nice to know that the park was opened on my birthday.

Lai Chi Kok Park monument

Anyway, here are a few more pictures for your viewing pleasure. I still have a few more days’ worth of pictures to put up so I’ll try and make these posts short.

Pagoda

Bridge

Fish swimming in the pond

Warning sign

The sign says “No releasing of captive fish or waterfowl into the lake/pond is allowed. Offenders are liable to prosecution and upon conviction, to a maximum fine of $2000 and imprisonment for 14 days.” It sounds like you’re allowed to catch the fish but you can’t release your own.

Rock pathway

Lai Chi Kok Park
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Oceans apart

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Relationships are hard no matter what type you have. I always thought that it would be easy but as it turns out, there’s a lot of work involved. I was under the impression that once you get the girl, you don’t have to worry about impressing her anymore. Boy was I wrong. Relationships are something that you have to work on every day. If you miss one day, you’re out of sync. With that being said, long distance relationships are ever harder.

My lovely girlfriend, Jenn is over eight thousand kilometers away. She’s in a whole other time zone and sometimes she’s in a whole other day. Right now, the time difference is a bit tricky but we’re getting the hang of it. The time difference between eastern Canada and Hong Kong is about twelve hours. So when I’m waking up, she’s just getting out of work. And when I’m just getting out of work, she’s just waking up. It’s not too hard to talk during those times but the conversation doesn’t last too long. Once I get into work, I have to cut our conversation short. And when she’s at work, I’m already fast asleep.

The time difference isn’t the only obstacle in a long distance relationship. Making those phone calls isn’t cheap. I never realized it at first but buying all those phone cards is expensive. When she first moved out to Hong Kong, I would buy a phone card and it would last a week. But as the days go by, I wanted to talk to her more and more. I later realized that buying all those phone cards can cost about forty dollars a week. I’m trying to save money but I also need to keep in touch with her as well.

I’m sure that I can save money by using MSN Messenger or simply typing out an email but I need to hear her voice. Yes, I could do video chat which comes with audio but the only time we can do that is on the weekend when we don’t have to rush to work. During the weekday, I’ll call her just before she leaves for work. This gives us a fifteen minute window where we can talk for a while. And while she’s at work, we swap emails with each other. When I’m at work, I try to call her before lunch, which is about the time she goes to bed. But there have been times where I am not able to get to a phone on time before she gets to bed.

Sometimes I can’t call her because I don’t have a phone card with me. I could call her directly with my cell phone but I’m sure that it can cost a lot for an overseas call. The last time she called me without using a calling card, the bill came out to one hundred dollars for a twenty minute call. This was on the day that she landed in Tokyo. I wasn’t mad because I was up waiting for her call. I wanted to know that she got back on the ground safely so that hundred dollars was worth every penny.

When I do have a phone card handy, it’s not guaranteed that I’ll be able to call her. Lately I’ve been having some issues with the phone card that I use. Every time I call the access number, I run into some errors. Sometimes my PIN isn’t accepted by the system so I’ll have to re-enter it. Sometimes, my phone sends out the wrong tone and the system doesn’t hear it. And sometimes the circuits are busy and my calls don’t go through. I can make numerous attempts but I’ll get the same results. It’s frustrating when you’re in a rush to make a phone call and nothing is working. Sometimes I get the feeling that something out there doesn’t want me to make this phone call but I can’t let that stop me. I need to make that phone call and I need to make it as soon as possible. There are ways to avoid busy circuits and that’s by buying different phone cards from different companies. I’ve worked in this industry before so I’m aware of what’s happening in the background. Some companies take on too many customers for their own good. It’s best to buy calling cards from companies who are able to support the number of customers that they have.

Long distance relationships are hard but they don’t have to be. In today’s information world, there’s no need to make distance an obstacle between two people let alone two people who loves each other. But one thing’s for sure, you’ll never know the true test of your relationship until you’ve gone through something like this. Couples are meant to be together and not separated. If they are able to hang on to each other when there’s a great distance between them then there’s no telling what kind of obstacles they can overcome.

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Third time’s the charm

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Three years ago this day, I started up this blog. It’s hard to believe that I’ve been able to keep it up and running for such a long time. What’s even harder to believe is that I’ve managed to come up with all these content. It surprises me to read the things that I’ve written in the last three years. A lot has changed since March 15, 2005.

I’ve gone back and read a few of my older posts and it seems a little weird reading everything. It’s like seeing life through the eyes of someone else. I feel like the guy who I was is not the same guy that I am. My earlier writing makes me sound like I was a young guy who is just stepping out into the world and test the waters. Back then, I didn’t know what was going on. I didn’t know where I was going. I didn’t know much about anything.

My writing style has changed a bit as well. Before, I was writing about everyday things but now I’m writing about life. I’ve gone from general topics to more specific topics. My posts aren’t just nonsense about this and that anymore. I’m actually writing more thought provoking issues. And I don’t just write about life, I’m writing about life experiences. It’s nice to actually go back and read my writings to see that I’ve changed in some way. In a sense, I’ve matured.

I also find it weird that I’m criticizing myself as I read those older posts. I see a lot of spelling and grammatical mistakes that I did not see when I typed out those posts. And I’m pretty sure that I used a spell checker before posting them up too. There were even cases where I left a word out completely. What in the world was I smoking back then? I don’t’ know why I do it but sometimes I’m thinking about one word but I end up typing another. But these days, I try to avoid these minor mistakes.

Since this is the 3rd year anniversary, I should have put together the new layout. Unfortunately, I’m rather busy these days to get one started. I know that I should have used the “Shy Blossom” theme but something came up and I’ll be using that theme for another site. So the new theme will have to wait. One of these days, I’m going to sit down and draw out a new layout. Sooner or later, this site will have a new look, just not at this moment.

Happy Birthday Dad!

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On March 9, 2008 my father turned 50 years old. It’s a milestone age so I wanted to do something big but knowing my dad, he probably doesn’t want us to do that. We were limited as to where we can take him for his birthday because we had a big snow storm Saturday night. We wanted to take him to Korean Hot Pot but unfortunately, the business didn’t know about Day Light Savings time and opened late. We didn’t want to wait so long so we took him elsewhere.

We wanted to go to Hot Pot and since the restaurant that we wanted to go to was closed, we took him to lunch to Jade Garden. Everyone attended lunch, my mom, my four brothers and my brother’s girlfriend.

I went to check on the Korean restaurant before everyone left the house to see if they were opened. Since they were still closed, I walked over to Jade Garden. It was a good ten minute walk and I assumed that everyone would be there by the time I got there. My parent’s house was only a few blocks away and they were driving there so I didn’t see why they wouldn’t get there first.

When I arrived at Jade Garden, I didn’t see their car and they weren’t waiting inside the restaurant. I grabbed a table for eight and waited. A few minutes later, everyone arrived. Apparently, my brother’s car was stuck in the snow and it took them a while to push him out. On top of that, my dad’s car didn’t want to start because it ran out of gas. He left it on and went to take a nap not knowing that he left his car running.

After everyone arrived at the restaurant, we ordered all you can eat hot pot. I wasn’t expecting the amount of food that they brought over because the last time we went to hot pot, they gave us small portions. I think this place wants to make sure everything is there so it’ll be less work for them. They brought out so much that we didn’t get a chance to order seconds. By the time we were done eating, some of the items were still sitting there.

Usually, I’d get my dad something for his birthday but not this year. I think taking him out to lunch was good enough since we bought him a Samsung 50” Plasma television for Christmas. I would have saved that present for his 50th birthday but I had a feeling that he might buy one himself because a lot of his friends were getting big screen TVs.

Over lunch, we talked about things but it wasn’t a lot of things. My parents and I don’t talk as much as we should. I know that I can talk to them as if we’re friends but it feels weird if I was to talk to them as if we’re friends. I told the more about my time in Hong Kong and my dad shared some stories of Cambodian hot pot. He told everyone a story of how there were people in Cambodia who would have hot pot on a boat. At first, it sounded strange but then he said that they would be in the middle of the lake and they would scoop the sea food straight out of the water and cook them. You can’t get any fresher than that.