Females are a fascinating gender. It never ceases to amaze me the things that they are capable of doing. The flickering of their eyelashes, the pouting of their lips and the way their body sways is enough to get a guy fired up. I don’t know if it’s just our animal instincts but something in us guys is triggered when we see a girl.
They say that “beauty is in the eye of the beholder” but beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. Everyone out there has their own definition of beauty. My meaning of beauty could vary significantly from your definition of the word. The way I see it, a girl doesn’t have to be perfect to be beautiful.
Beauty isn’t just what’s on the outside. It goes beyond the skin. There’s that thing called “inner beauty” where the girl is beautiful on the inside. People take that term too literally. It doesn’t mean that their inner organs are a site for sore eyes. I think it means their personality. There are some girls that are attractive because of their behaviour. The physical attraction helps by getting them noticed but it’s not until you get to know the other person that you feel a strong attraction.
But not all girls are confident in their appearance so they look to cosmetics. All that the make up does is hide their natural beauty. I find that girls who tend to wear a lot of make up aren’t as attractive when all of it comes off. Back in college, there was one girl in my class that wore a lot of make up. I was over at her house one night and she didn’t have any on. Her first words to me were, “I know, I look terrible.” I told her that she looked fine. But it seemed like the only thing that she was able to focus on was her appearance without make up. I could sense that she was a little bit insecure with the way she looked but I assured her that she didn’t have to be.
Some girls might even become a little insecure when it comes to aging. They see aging as a sign of getting less beautiful because they’ll start to develop wrinkles and they hair will go gray. I wouldn’t blame them. If you take a look at all the advertisements that are in magazines and on television, you’ll probably notice that there aren’t too many people over a certain age. In my GQ magazines, most of the models are younger than the age of thirty. If a woman in her fifties was to look through this magazine, I’d understand why she would start feeling insecure about herself with every turn of the page.
There’s more to aging than the physical aspect. I came to a realize a while ago, that the older you get, the richer your life becomes. As you grow older, you gain a lot of experiences and a wealth of knowledge. And beauty doesn’t go away with aging and women shouldn’t think that way. Michelle Pfeiffer is close to being fifty and she’s still as hot as when I first saw her in the “Batman Returns” movie. What’s not sexy about a skin tight leather cat suit? Meow!
When I was younger, I never quite understood the reason why we weren’t allowed to ask an older woman what her age was. It was considered to be socially unacceptable and rude if you were to ask. There’s nothing wrong with telling people your age. You should be embracing the fact that you’ve gained all this life experience. Most of the models these days are somewhere in their twenties. How much do they know compared to someone in their fifties?
There are some guys out there that likes older women because they’re more “experienced.” I recall a documentary on TLC about guys my age going after women who were twice their age. I forgot exactly why they went for someone older but I think one of the guys said that he didn’t care about the age difference. He met this older woman and things clicked and that was all that mattered to them.
Most people are starting to look beyond the appearance. No matter how a person looks on the outside, there is something about them that will catch the attention of an onlooker. I’ve seen couples around town that looks as if they’re total opposite. They say that opposites attract but that all depends on the person. The attraction between two people is hard to guess. Two people can hate each other during their high school days and then get married later in the future. People don’t really care too much about what makes them different. They know that their blood starts pumping when they’re around the other person and that gets the brain ticking. The rest is history.